Dependent Attachment

Psychologically one becomes dependent as a result of ones desires. One is insecure with ones own self. The self is looking to share its insecurity with a singular personality or an organizational system. One becomes attached to that which it seeks. The result of this attachment is dependency. One is seeking resolution through another, be it a personality or an organization. In some the attachment is so strong that one would do almost anything to maintain the status quo. One becomes a slave to ones desires. One is enamored by the self created image of the other. When one is attached psychologically one has expectations, which is the result of perceived need. Because one is disintegrated one is looking for integration in another. Attachment leads to all sorts of psychological problems, all of which are self created. The mind is easily attached because the self "is" insecurity.

In order to be free, one must have realization into the self which is seeking. One feels separated, so one seeks the illusion of associative identity. One does not realize that one is whole within ones self. That separation is the illusion of a mind that is seeking confirmation and conformity. To realize the oneness of all existence is to never experience the illusion of separateness again. One eliminates all barriers to understanding, because there is no intervening separated self to come between the truth and what is. The truth is in the moment, in what is. One cannot realize truth if one is looking through the accumulated and conflicted self. The moment mirrors the truth.
One is always escaping the moment, into whatever thoughts are arising. Hence ones mind is disintegrated and seeking integration though attachment.

Is it possible to live and exist in relationship without the angst of attachment, of being psychologically dependent? One must realize the origin of dependent attachment, why one feels the need to cling to an idea, person or organization. One realizes the need to feel secure, but does it go deeper than that? Can one have a realization that is not of thought, word, definition? If one is timelessly aware, in the absolute moment, one may have a realization that is the absence of all self motivation and desire for attainment. It is possible to live a life of total freedom, despite what others may have said. One can realize an existence that is without attachment and identification. If one is totally aware of the moment there is the dissipation of the illusion of self, that which is attached and has identity. It is the truth of what is. It is a life of acceptance and vulnerability. Only one who is vulnerable can realize the freedom of what is and the end of all conflict. The beginning is to just look without a center. Be aware of your attachments and how that they control your life and the way you think and act. See that you are nothing more than the culmination of attached identity. Realize for the first time that you are in a prison of self created conflict. One does not need to do anything or believe anything just look at what is. Freedom is not the result of elimination or substitution, it is the outcome of the truth of what is.